The Subtle Dating Trap: CatholicMatch.com Article

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Quotes from Ram-Giri Braun

We are destined to have fulfilling and enlightened lives - but we are often too distracted to know what to do to fulfill this destiny. We can get focused on this path to inner peace in two ways - by suffering, or by a decision to follow our yearning for happiness. Don't wait for suffering. Take just one step today to end distraction and tune into your heart more deeply. And then take another step tomorrow... ~ Ram-Giri Braun

To Date, Seriously: CatholicMatch.com Article

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When it is the Time ? - Nov 27, 2009

Do you know when you make the wrong turn ?
Do you know when you make the right decision ?
Do you know when you have the true feeling ?
Do you know when you make the wrong move ?
Do you know when you meet the right person ?
Do you know when it is time ?
Do you know .... ?
No, you don't, don't you ? Till....
You make the wrong turn
You make the wrong decision
You have the wrong feeling
You make the wrong move
or you just simply haven't met the right person...
Do you EVER know when it is TIME ?

North Carolina Pig Pickin' History and Recipe

Watch this Pig Pickin in the National Geographic Channel. It is very interesting to know there is another way to roast or barbeque the whole pig, except for the way I accustomed to, chinese pork BBQ with crispy skin and soft moist meat, if you cook it the right way.

Love to try that BBQ one day.

Any month of the year is good for a pig pickin' in North Carolina. The barbecue style will vary according to what area you're in: In the eastern part of the state, the entire pig (split down the middle) is cooked, and the sauce is made with vinegar and pepper. In the western part, only pig shoulders are cooked, and a tomato-based finishing sauce is used. Unlike other food preparation in the South, which is usually dominated by women, barbecue is a male domain.

Before the Civil War, pigs were a food staple in the South because they were a low-maintenance and convenient food source. The pigs could be put out to root in the forest and caught when the food supply became low. These semi-wild pigs were tougher and stringier than modern-day pigs. Pig slaughtering became a time for celebration, ant other families would be invited to share in the eating. Out of these gatherings grew the traditional southern barbecue. Plantation owners regularly held large barbecues for their slaves. According to historians, southerners ate, on average, five pounds of pork for every one pound of beef.

In the 19th century, barbecues were an important feature of church functions and political rallies. Members of both political parties would come to the same gathering, with the leaders of each party competing with one another to supply the largest contribution of food and drink. Folks would gather from afar to reach the appointed place in time for the speeches, band concert, and all-important barbecue. The only accompaniments to the roast pig were thick slices of good bread, cucumbers (fresh and pickled), and whiskey. The saying "going whole hog" came out of these political rallies.

During the 20th century, barbecue joints or pits flourished (a typical joint or pit was a bare concrete floor covered by a corrugated tin roof and walls). Restaurants grew out of a simple barbecue pit where the owner sold barbecue to take away. Many were open only on weekends, since the "pit men" worked on farms during the week. As the century progressed, barbecue joints grew and prospered.

North Carolina Pig Pickin'

While visiting my friends, Bill and Andra Cook of Raleigh, North Carolina (a couple of years ago), Bill's father, Elbert Cook of New Bern, North Carolina, brought his homemade barbecue pit (which he has fixed on a trailer) to the Cook's home and carefully tended the pig. When done, we pulled the meat off the ribs with our fingers and at pig pickin'. It was finger lickin' good!

1 (60 to 100-pound) dressed pig*
Coarse salt
60 pounds charcoal briquettes, divided
Secret Sauce (see below)

* A live pig weighting 90 to 130 pounds will dress out a carcass approximately the desired weight. (Dressed means that the pig is prepared for pig pickin cooking.)

Split open the whole dressed pig and butterfly (slit the backbone to allow the pig to lay flat, being careful not to pierce the skin). Trim and discard any excess fat (excess fat may cause a flare-up during cooking). Sprinkle the cavity with salt, cover, and let pig sit overnight.

Place 20 pounds of charcoal in the barbecue pit or pig cooker (add charcoal as needed during cooking process). Pour charcoal lighter fluid on the briquettes and ignite. Let the charcoal burn until a fine white ash covers the briquettes.

Place a heavy gauge wire screen or rack about a foot above the coals. Place butterflied pig on rack (skin side up) and season with additional salt. Close lid of the cooker and cook 7 to 8 hours or until the internal temperature of the pig reaches 170 degrees F.

Raise temperature of cooker slowly. It should take up to 3 hours to get external temperature to 200 degrees F. (meat will crust over if temperature is too high). Let external temperature rise to 250 degrees F. Carefully watch the temperature to maintain the 250 degrees F. external temperature.

When done, turn pig over (skin side down) and spread with Secret Sauce (see recipe below). Cover and cook an additional 1 hour until skin is crisp. Remove from cooker.

Slice or chop the meat or allow guests to pull meat from the bones. Serve with additional Secret Sauce.

Secret Sauce
This recipe was generously donated by Al Carson of Raleigh, North Carolina.

Most families and restaurants that are known for their barbecues make their own sauce. In fact, they'll tell you that the "secret is in the sauce." You would no more ask a barbecue man for his sauce recipe that you would for the use of his dog. Most people simply call their sauce "Secret Sauce."

1 gallon apple cider vinegar
1 (28-ounce) bottle ketchup
2 3/4 cups firmly-packed brown sugar
1/4 cup garlic powder
1/4 cup salt
1/4 cup crushed red pepper
1 tablespoon ground black pepper
1/2 teaspoon ground cloves

In a large stainless-steel pot over medium-high heat, combine all the ingredients; bring to a boil. Reduce heat to low and simmer for approximately 15 minutes or until crushed red pepper sinks. Remove from heat.

It should be bottled hot, not boiling. Just hot enough that the bottles are hard to hold for more than a few seconds. Fill bottles within 1/2 inch of the top. By bottling hot, it will seal itself. Does not need refrigeration until after opening and then only to protect flavor.

NOTE: The sauce does not seem to have a problem with spoilage. I have used unopened bottles a year later and they have been very good. The sauce does get hotter with age.

If you like the sauce even hotter, add 1/4 cup of Tabasco before cooking.

Traditionally, cole slaw, baked beans, corn on the cob, and hushpuppies are served with the meal; don't forget the sweet ice tea. Check out Linda's recipes.